Woman advises find love around you, warns against fake abroad lovers
A woman has advised others to “find love around you” and cautioned against seeking partners abroad after sharing a painful personal experience involving an abroad-based man she once trusted. In a heartfelt message that has resonated with many on social media, she described how the relationship began with hopeful promises but ended in disappointment and betrayal, leading her to urge others not to romanticise foreign-based relationships.
In her account, the woman explained that the man, whom she had met online, claimed to be serious about building a future together. He contacted her frequently, professed love, and spoke of plans to meet soon after making arrangements abroad. At first, she was encouraged by his words and believed the relationship could lead to marriage and stability. However, as time went on, the man’s behaviour changed. He became distant and began making excuses when it came to concrete plans to visit or support her, even after she had invested emotionally and financially in the relationship.
She said the turning point came when the man asked her for money under various pretexts, including helping him secure a visa, cover medical expenses, or resolve travel issues. Despite her repeated hopes that things would work out, she ultimately realised that the man’s intentions were not genuine. Friends and followers who heard her story reacted with sympathy and shared their own experiences of similar situations, saying many people fall victim to long-distance relationships where one party is not sincere.
In offering advice, she emphasised that true love should be built on accountability, consistent actions, and proximity, rather than distant assurance and virtual affection. “Find love around you,” she said, adding that relationships with people abroad can be risky if there is no real commitment, support, or effort to make the union work in real life. Her message has sparked broader conversations online about the importance of caution in digital relationships and the value of relationships where partners are physically present and invested.
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